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Molevalence

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  1. SimLab

    I found out Pregnancy only lasts 3 days originally. I found a mod that extends the pregnancy but I am not sure after you install it it runs automatically or if you need to tweak it in game. I'll post a link to show which one it is and see if anyone else uses it can shed some light on this.  
  2. SimLab

    Out less than a week and people are already hard at work.
  3. SimLab

    I will agree that TS4 looks amazing graphics wise but they have much much work to do before I buy it. I am thinking about getting the collectors edition then putting it away and only opening it when they have enough content to keep me entertained for a while and fixed a lot of the bugs.
  4. SimLab

    I was not surprised when I heard so much bashing of The Sims 4. No toddlers, pools, or hot tubs with the game? That was a very bad sign right there. I won't pick this game up until after they fix what they messed up and wait a while for more content to be released. I have all the Sims 3 content (Save for Sweet Treats) and since I just learned how to mod it recently The Sims 3 will have more than enough content to keep me entertained.   Kind of funny how people bashed The Sims 3 when it first came out and now that Sims 4 has been released, 3 aint looking so bad.  
  5. SimLab

    I just tried these out. They are quite good. Facial expressions are a little over the top but hey, its the sims.  
  6. "What are you playing" thread

    It use to do this for me but there is a addon or mod I use which keeps track of every sim in your town and if something gets stuck or bugged out (Which will happen often) will automatically reset them for you. I think its called Overwatch.   
  7. Depression

    Thank you.
  8. Depression

    I have read this entire forum and I feel I should say something to Dovakeks then explain a little bit about myself.   Dovakeks, you are a strong man to speak up. Especially on the internet. It's infested with trolls, immature, rude, arrogant, menacing people who like to pray on people for the sake of self enjoyment or just as a way to cope with their own real life difficulties. It's like walking out into a minefield blindfolded. You did it anyways and so far have dodged all the mines. Your posts of recovery are admirable and the advice people have given you/us will go long ways. Keep up the work. It will get better.   (I really need to practice what I preach...)    I have been a member on this website for over a year now and I feel like I should speak. In my time here people have been very nice, mature and most of all quite informative and resourceful helping others they will probably never meet in person. I am walking out into the mine field now I will be honest,   If any of you who read this have read any of my posts or topics, you can have a large assumption that I am quite socially awkward. Depression has a lot to do with this and everyone's case can be different in small ways or very different ways. I have researched a lot about depression in the past few years but I still claim to know nothing. As far as I know through experience I have a lot of social anxiety, lack of self worth, self esteem, self hate, and even can go as far as self loathing. I will explain further below. I stumbled upon a "journal;" I wrote 4 years ago explaining my life to my earliest memory as a child all the way up to the modern day at the time. To put it blunt, it was not a happy story. I have tried opening up to people but a great part of me fears what others will think of me if I reveal myself in any way. My brother and friends know I have depression in small cases but they will probably never know how deep the rabbit hole goes.   Social Anxiety: I am socially awkward and I know this. Most days I do not want to speak with anyone and will even isolate myself for days. Worst case was 11 days of self isolation where I only left my room to bathe and use the restroom. I hate large groups of people so I refuse to go to bars, social gatherings and events. My brother and some friends always try to include me in their events and I know they mean well so I reluctantly go. I feel though I ruin their time because they think I should be enjoying myself where I would rather be home. Because of my social awkwardness most days I wish I was mute so I could avoid socialization all together. A part of me wonders why I have not become mute due to these factors.   Self-Esteem/Confidence: I find these two can go together. Both are nearly non-existent to me. Growing up I was picked on throughout my entire school career and it was relentless. All forms of bullying I experienced and I feel it left my scarred when I entered adulthood. Because of this the last person on my mind is myself. I don't take myself into account for anything. I'd give my shirt off my back to help someone else and not even care about what happens to me in the process. I came up with a theory that I repeat to myself every day and in a way it keeps me going. "If I am a lightning rod for negativity. If I feel miserable maybe others around me will not have to." I even remember going to the guidance councilor at my high school due to self reckless behavior where she asked me "What do you want to pursue in life?" In which I replied "To matter." A part of me hates society as a whole yet another part on me longs to be accepted. I want to matter but my low self self value/esteem/worth makes me feel like no matter what I do I won't. So I am on a endless race to help others hoping that one day I might be accepted. Some nights when I go to sleep I think about where I would be like if I were someone else, somewhere else, a different gender or age?   Self Hate: This part is very complicated but to me is the most dangerous because this has lead to physical cases. I know I am a good person. With all my faults I know for a fact that I am a good person yet I hate myself both physically and mentally regardless. Some days I have a crisis of conscience where I question the fact of why I am here, what am I doing, why do I hate myself so much and why can't I be truly happy? Brooding thoughts are in constant motion and these have led to some cases of self deprivation. I hate my physical form so much when I feel I am overweight I will not eat for days on end. Longest was 9 days straight. I wont physically hurt myself but I will neglect my needs such as social, dietary, and sexual needs. I am 27 years old and still a virgin. I do this by choice but I know there is more to this. Stated above I have piratically no sense of self worth. You need to love yourself before you can love someone else and this is the brick wall that keeps me from going out to find someone. I know if I tried I could find someone but I just simply do not care. This probably has a lot to do with my aggression due to sexual frustration. I have been repressing sexual desires since the end of puberty. I also feel I don't deserved to be loved ever since my mother passed away last year. She understood me and now that she is gone I feel isolated and alone. I feel after she passed is where my depression took a massive dive. Some days I will sleep for more than 16 hours and other times I will stay awake for days on end.   I have felt this way for more than 15 years. Suicide has crossed my mind and the only thing that keeps me going is what little family I have left. My brother for one and my mother before she passed. Losing my grandfather a few months ago didn't help. I thought about taking medication however this conflicts me because I do not find it natural yet it would probably do wonders. In the past 2 years 3 people I knew have passed on and one almost passed after a serious brain operation. After reading this forum over and over again, seeing the advice people gave, telling their own stories, I felt like I needed to as well. I also feel like I am pouring my heart out and want something that I feel I cannot have.   This was exceedingly difficult to type up and I only ask one thing, please be respectful.
  9. "What are you playing" thread

    Elder Scrolls Online Sims 3 DayZ World of Tanks League of Legends Skyrim (From time to time)   Should really take a few off my list...
  10. SimLab

    Worked like a charm. Thank you. ^.^  
  11. SimLab

    I was able to change my sims skin meshes in game with some research which solved one of my problems. The last problems is the teenagers still wear clothes during the nude phase. I removed some installed content that was set to default which I didnt use hoping it would set the default nude to normal but it resorted to another swimsuit which was in the original Sims 3.   I checked MTS and tried your idea along with a few others but there was nothing in my category along the lines of teenager clothing edits. Best question at this moment would be if there is any way to set the nude state back to default so they are not wearing anything? (If there is a way to edit this manually that would be great too. )   Thank you for replying.   Update: I was able to find a mod that gives massive customization to the CAS editor but I was only able to find it on Pandora Sims and not to sound cheap but I really dont think I should have to pay for using mods.
  12. SimLab

    Hey everyone. I just figured out how to customize mods for the Sims 3. What I discovered and only happens to teenagers or younger and I am not quite sure how to fix this. What happens is from newborn to child if born from parents the newborn baby has these weird graphical glitches. Sometimes the baby even has while gloves on. Children when they bathe or shower their body is all warped like a strange alien. When they turn into a teenager when they bathe or shower my family for example she is wearing a bathing suit with knee high boots. These also cannot be alter or changed as far as I know. Does anyone know how to change skin tones/remove clothing from the nude state?  
  13. SimLab

    They are going to do to TS4 what they did to TS3 add everything to small expansions every few months. This pisses me off greatly because they know Sims fans will bite the bullet and buy it but at the same time limits the game. Basically what TS4 is on release will be the same as TS3 was on its release. I will wait at least 6 months before picking it up.  
  14. SimLab

    I know my save is not corrupt because even with a new game I was still unable to access the animations, I checked my game and it is up to date and the installed location is correct. I think I am missing the Animated Woohoo file but when following instructions (For the SMAnimations) no such file I think was mentioned. I;ll check again but anyone have an idea where to find that particular file?   Update: I think I found it! I now have the Animated Woohoo bubble and all its settings. Thank you all for the help.
  15. SimLab

    Hmm. I am sorry I should have been more precise with my issue. I cannot get the bubble setting when you click on your sim to appear so I can configure these animations. Because of this I cannot access any animations. >.>
  16. SimLab

    I just found this and decided to give these a try since I own the SIms 3 plus every expansion for it. (Save Sweet Treats.) The instructions are easy enough but one of them seems to confuse me. On the installation guide it states: "Then in-game you need to add "SManimations" on the pose list in settings." I checked the settings tab and actually everywhere but it will not give me such an option. Am I missing something or did I just Derp again?   Update: I was able to get the animations listed in the mod list at the main menu so at least I installed it correctly. I also did research indicating that there is a command bubble that should appear to configure these animations but no such bubble has appeared for me. Any suggestions?
  17. Request-SexLab Rape Slave

    I agree with this but in my opinion what would add a huge dept of atmosphere to all of the mods that involve slavery and sex is a mental health bar. In a nutshell it deteriorates through various things that happen to your character. (Fatigue, wounds, even rape) if caught and after numerous assaults the mental health bar will lower just like any other bar would and as it lowers your characters dialog would change depending on how low the bar is. Eventually your character will break or submit and be totally obedient. Hence game over.
  18. Explain Your Avatard

    My avatar is from the best character I made for Skyrim. Her name is Aerinis and she is now an Ice Queen.